Monday, September 19, 2011

I just don't get it...

Below I am copying a conversation that Mikia (13) had with her father. Word for word. I have all my SMS from my phone sent to my email. (the blue is Mikia)

sguerra1972@gmail.com
Hey this is Mikia. I have a question.
 ~*{(TaGraAgamDuit)}*~4:27 PM (5 hours ago)

 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 4:57 PM (5 hours ago)
What's up tre

 Reply mailto:%7Csguerra1972@gmail.com to Rick
show details 5:00 PM (5 hours ago)
Wat did I get for my bday
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 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 5:03 PM (5 hours ago)
I don't know you didn't come over. So I have no idea what you got for your b day.

 Reply mailto:%7Csguerra1972@gmail.com to Rick
show details 5:05 PM (5 hours ago)
From u
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 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 5:10 PM (5 hours ago)
What are you talking about?

 Reply mailto:%7Csguerra1972@gmail.com to Rick
show details 5:10 PM (5 hours ago)
Why did keira get stuff and I didnt
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 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 5:14 PM (4 hours ago)
You disowned me so I didn't think you'd want anything from me.

 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 5:15 PM (4 hours ago)
You told me I wasn't your dad and you didn't want to see me so what am I supposed to do about that.

 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 5:17 PM (4 hours ago)
If you would have came over you would of had something also

 Reply mailto:%7Csguerra1972@gmail.com to Rick
show details 5:19 PM (4 hours ago)
Okay this is Stacy. Kia's done!!! Goodbye Rick
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 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 5:20 PM (4 hours ago)
What's going on

 Reply |Rick Guerra 4176698989@unknown.email via unknown.email to me
show details 5:43 PM (4 hours ago)
Just so you know its not the 22nd that's what Keira said you was going to throw the party. So just relax

 Reply mailto:%7Csguerra1972@gmail.com to Rick
show details 6:17 PM (3 hours ago)
You weren't invited sorry
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The story behind this conversation is that Keira went to spend the weekend with Rick and came back with Birthday presents and got a cake and ice cream. Mikia didn't even get a real Happy Birthday from him. Other than him telling Keira to tell her for him. Now their birthdays are only 4 days apart. And we have 2 working cell phones in the house. Why couldn't he of text or called him herself? I mean was it really that hard to do?

But the biggest issue I have is how can a parent, father or mother, so easily do that? Oh, you disowned me so okay? Yeah no...I would be all up in the kids' face wanting to know why and what can we do to fix it. Most real parents would. But I guess I shouldn't be all that surprised really. This is the same stunt he pulled with Jaymz too. Just walked away like they were never nothing.

And I was seriously considering asking Rick to let Derek adopt her, but you know...he isn't going to get out of the $14189.11 in back child support that he owes these kids that easy. That's what the general opinion on why he is doing it has become. Or alienating the kids so he doesn't feel guilty for not paying. Yeah...

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